Uh oh, the clocks are changing!
Woo! The clocks are going back. That means an EXTRA HOUR in bed! Unless of course you are a parent of a small child, then it typically doesn’t.
In fact it probably means you’ll be bleary eyed, staggering about in the dark at daft o’clock wondering what time it is!
We all know that once a year, at end of October, we put our clocks back an hour. We even get why. Harvest/daylight/yada yada/blah blah.
But sadly that message doesn’t quite translate to babies, toddlers and young children. Which is why your child free friends all shout on social media about how awesome it is to get an extra hours sleep while you secretly hate them a little through sheet envy.
What a surprise that they’re up at 5am on Sunday morning, rather than 6am – because it really IS 6am. Which is exactly what I see mums and dads sharing on Facebook…
“8month old son was up for the day at 5.30!” or “Wouldn’t mind if it was the baby awake but he’s still snoozing and it was my 4 year old demanding I woke up and came downstairs at 6.45” or “My kids thought they’d be clever and get up two hours earlier”
Sound familiar? Or is this your first time as a parent so you really want to avoid this?
So how do you prepare your baby or toddler for the clocks changing?
When should you do mealtimes? And if you’re basically living life an hour later, how on earth do you synchronise with your child so you’re not all waking at stupid o’clock until Spring?!
Of course, there’s lots of advice online and in Facebook groups about what you need to do, but just how helpful is it? I’ve seen loads of things suggested on various threads on social media any overall there is a huge amount of conflicting suggestions so I decided to ask Sarah Carpenter from Baby Matters for her advice. Here are her top tips on how to prepare your child for the clocks going back and avoid a 4am start!
- Think ahead – don’t wait till the day the clocks change before you decide which approach to take.
- A few days before, so for this change start today, alter your baby’s routine, including meals, naps and bedtime.
- We would suggest 10 minutes each day so it’s a gradual undisruptive change.
- If you start your day at a set time you should also adjust this by 10 minutes earlier/later depending on clocks going forward or back.
- If your baby/child’s bedroom is particularly light try using a black out blind to help keep them settled.
- Don’t disrupt the overall routine as this will only unsettle yourself and baby so small adjustments are all that’s needed.
- If you do find you have an unsettled baby/child don’t worry it’s only going to take a few days of you implementing your normal routine at the new time and you will all adjust accordingly.
- For some the change doesn’t affect them at all, if you have a baby/child who enjoys a long lie anyway you will sail through the time change without making any adjustments.
I really hope they are of help to many of you! Good luck and sleep well! Oh and let me know how you get on!